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Wilma "Willie" Opal Duethman
1926 2019

Wilma "Willie" Opal Duethman

June 6, 1926 — November 2, 2019

Wilma Opal (Ruby) Duethman, age 93, of Paola passed away November 2, 2019 in Spring Hill, Kansas. Wilma was born on June 6, 1926 in Bush City, KS to Ralph and Opal (Hardesty) Ruby. Willie (as her friends call her) grew up in Garnett, Kansas where she went to school and worked part-time at Spradlins Rexall Drug Store. For recreation, Willie liked dancing in her younger years. She graduated from Garnett High School in 1945. The next year Wilma converted to Catholicism and she married Wilfred L. Duethman on October 9, 1946. They lived in Ottawa, KS for 13 years and then moved to Paola KS in 1959 where both Wilma and Wil were members of Holy Trinity Catholic Church. Willie was a homemaker, then went to work for Marvin Clark and Mike Alt as a bookkeeper followed by work as a realtor for Carter Realty and then Crown Realty where she enjoyed finding homes for her clients. By these jobs she helped support all of her children including giving them a chance to attend college. Wil and Willie had six children. Willie is survived by four children Charles (Sue) Duethman of Stilwell, Kansas, Mary Jo (Mike) Brosch of Leawood, Kansas, Jan (Richard) Torrez of Topeka, Kansas, and Jon (Loretta) Duethman of Wellsville, Kansas; 20 grandchildren; and 29 great grandchildren. Willie was preceded in death by her daughter Elaine Sue Duethman, son Terry Edward Duethman, husband of 64 years Wil Duethman, and her sister Rita Mae Duethman. She will be dearly missed by family and friends. Memorials may be made to the Holy Trinity Catholic Church in Paola and sent in care of Dengel & Son Mortuary, 305 N. Pearl St., Paola, Kansas, 66071. Rosary will be held at Dengel & Son Mortuary in Paola Kansas on Friday, November 8, 2019 at 6:00 p.m., followed by visitation until 8:00 pm. Funeral services will be Saturday, November 9, 2019 at 9:00 a.m. at Holy Trinity Catholic Church in Paola, Kansas. Burial to follow at Mount Calvary Cemetery in Ottawa, Kansas. A lunch at Holy Trinity, 501 E. Chippewa, Paola, KS, 66071 will be served at 12 o’clock noon. Family and friends are encouraged to post their condolences and memories on Willie's Tribute Wall.

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Rosary

Friday, November 8, 2019

6:00 - 6:30 pm (Central time)

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Visitation

Friday, November 8, 2019

6:30 - 8:00 pm (Central time)

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Funeral Service

Saturday, November 9, 2019

9:00 - 10:00 am (Central time)

Holy Trinity Catholic Church

501 East Chippewa Street, Paola, KS 66071

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