Deedra F. Smith

Deedra Fae (Aldridge) Smith, 54, passed away October 25th 2020, with her family by her side and in her heart. She was born on August 21st 1966 in a farmhouse one mile outside of Paola, Kansas to Marilyn Alice (Nelson) Morgan and James Leland Aldridge. Deedra is survived by her spouse Rob Brecheisen, her three sons: Derek Raymond and Nelson Shane Franklin Marmon of Scottsdale, Arizona, and Jimmy Dale Smith Jr. of Harrisonville, Missouri. Grandchildren; Isabella Pheobe Rose, Carolyn Elizabeth, and Gabriel Michael of Quenemo, Kansas. Her mother Marilyn Alice Morgan of Louisburg, Kansas. Brother; Ty Creston (and wife Diane) Aldridge of Dessert Hot Springs, California. Sister; Jamie Dawn Aldridge of Paola, Kansas. Numerous Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, Nieces, Nephews, and close friends. Deedra was preceded in death by her grandparents; Sterling Creston and Mabel Loretta Nelson, John Ira and Ruth Irene Aldridge, her father James Leland Aldridge, and her Bestie April Farris. Deedee, as she was known to those closest to her, was a beloved spouse, daughter, sister, mother, grandmother, aunt (Damon's favorite), and friend. She was a huge John Wayne fan and throughout life’s ups and downs she would often find inspiration in his famous quote, “Courage is being scared to death but saddling up anyway”. She was known for her razor-sharp wit, her instantly recognizable laugh, and warm hugs. Deedee was an avid reader, loved visiting the beach, eating seafood, and being surrounded by her family and friends. Words cannot express the impact she had on those around her. Deedee's love and laughter will continue on in the hearts of those she touched. Per Deedee’s wishes, a private celebration of life will be held at a later date.